From traditional to online dating: its application on the couples therapy

Autores/as

  • Rosalie Dela Cruz-Cada Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines
  • Dynehgre Casasola Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines
  • Michael Jo Guballa National University. Baliwag, Bulacan, Philippines. Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines
  • Sarah Bless Maddela-Sanchez Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines
  • Ma. Lea Ronda Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

DOI:

https://doi.org/10.48017/dj.v9iSpecial1.2879

Palabras clave:

social media, challenges, pandemic, trust, relationship

Resumen

El estudio examinó cómo los participantes pasaron de estar en un entorno de citas tradicional a un entorno de citas en línea cuando se produjo la pandemia. Se empleó un análisis fenomenológico interpretativo (IPA) para explorar y dar significado a las experiencias de ocho filipinos que utilizaron las citas en línea a través de las redes sociales para entablar relaciones románticas. El estudio destacó que los participantes experimentaron tanto felicidad como conexión, lo que los llevó a convertirse en mejores personas gracias a la relación en línea. Los participantes se adaptaron al uso de la tecnología para expresar su interés, sentimientos y cuidado por la otra persona haciendo esfuerzos por conocer a la otra persona, pasando tiempo de calidad entre ellos y asegurándose de que la comunicación esté siempre ahí para garantizar que la La otra persona se sentirá segura, cuidada y amada. Han superado desafíos, pero hubo problemas relacionados con la falta de confianza y relaciones de mala calidad como las de las personas que se citaban tradicionalmente en el período prepandémico, para los cuales se recomendaron enfoques específicos de terapia de pareja.

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Biografía del autor/a

Rosalie Dela Cruz-Cada, Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

0009-0002-6748-4161; Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines. rcada@feu.edu.ph, rjdelacruzcada@gmail.com

Dynehgre Casasola, Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

0009-0003-4107-361x; Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines. Rizal Technological University. Mandaluyong, Philippines. dpcasasola@rtu.edu.ph, casasoladynehgre@gmail.com.

Michael Jo Guballa, National University. Baliwag, Bulacan, Philippines. Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

0009-0001-1132-6044; National University. Baliwag, Bulacan, Philippines. Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines. icoyjo05@gmail.com, michaeljoe0505@gmail.com.

Sarah Bless Maddela-Sanchez, Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

0009-0006-9728-9155; Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines. National University. Pasay, Philippines.            sarahblesssanchez@gmail.com, sbcsanchez@nu-moa.edu.ph.

Ma. Lea Ronda, Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines

0009-0001-0735-9804; Far Eastern University. Manila, Philippines. University of Perpetual Health System DALTA. Las             Piñas, Philippines. leiron2007@gmail.com

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Publicado

2024-03-15

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Dela Cruz-Cada, R., Casasola, D., Guballa, M. J., Maddela-Sanchez, S. B., & Ronda, M. L. (2024). From traditional to online dating: its application on the couples therapy. Diversitas Journal, 9(1_Special). https://doi.org/10.48017/dj.v9iSpecial1.2879